Love & JudgementsJun 17, 2022
For years I have longed to have friends. Growing up I only had a couple. I was like a chameleon fitting in a little bit with each group or click in high school but not really having one that was mine. I had friends of convenience in college, people I worked with. But when I came home and started my real job, it’s like making friends just became impossible. That was 17 years ago 😳.
It has only been in the past 2-5 years that I have begun to make friends. To understand what friendship is. To understand why I did not have any in the past.
You want to know the #1 reason I didn’t have friends?
I was and still struggle with being extremely judgmental.
To have friends we must love others. It’s one of the greatest commandments: to love God and love others as ourselves. And it is impossible to love when we are judging. We can’t love God, we can’t love ourselves, and we can’t love others. And if we can’t love, then we will NOT have friends.
So I ask you, are you wanting to make friends, but can’t seem to make any?
Do you judge others for how they look, what they wear, or something else?
If so, this might be your problem. One of the scariest verses for me lately is “judge not lest you be judged.” I have started to repeat that to myself any time I notice I am judging someone. And then I repent immediately and ask for help to stop judging. I also ask that God help me to see others the way that He sees them.
If you struggle with judgements, I teach a tool in my Heal masterclass that is extremely helpful for processing judgements and helping you get the the place where you can do the steps above. You can sign up for it here: Heal Masterclass.
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